i never had the words for it, for you. when i miss you, it's exciting and terrifying, to feel something truly and honestly beyond words. i haven't the words and i feel no need for them. i need you, not words. i don't have any desire to label this, but i ache and burn and wait, in my own polygamous little way, for you. but when i'm mad at you, it's just a huge flaw that we don't verbalize. we could talk endlessly about the trivial, or we could endlessly just not speak, as long as we're in the same room. is this good? is this that thing i've been waiting for? i reject so many people, refuse to take them seriously as something that should or could ever really be in my life. in all this time, neither of us have said as much as "i sort of like you" to the other. i can count the things we've said. once in the beginning, you very innocently commented on the fact that you could kiss me forever. agreed. once you told me that you'd missed me after we didn't see each other for 5 days. the night before i left, we both admit that we would miss each other those upcoming 4 months. twice now this summer, you've said you were thinking about me, but wouldn't elaborate. the day you left i text, "i miss you, sometimes."
is this my life? is this the fire i've been waiting for? the ocean and the waves, all the gravity, is this it? you give nothing away. ideally i would be in a relationship, whatever the circumstance, with someone who was so motivated by passion, that they could not help but gush now and then. but state some facts, now and then. we don't. we don't do this. i don't...i'm not sure i wish we did. i just wish i knew where i stood.
some days i am sure. just suddenly, somehow, because of the song or the light or something, it's obvious. oh well, of course. like it hasn't been weighing me down, obviously. on the days that i am sure, i am thankful.
all i meant to say was, lately missing you has been like having a hole inside me. worse than ever, now that you're home. and i wasn't planning on talking to you via anything until we got back. but then you made that move. and. and i don't know what it means. that's really all i meant to say, but, as seems habitual of me, i got carried away.